My neighbor is a guy who moved to rural Virginia from NYC back in the late seventies. He made his money as a sort of famous photographer and from what I remember his actual big money came through a book he helped create. He took the photos for the book and someone else did the writing. The book was about Christmas tree ornaments. It’s hard to believe that someone could make serious money on something so stupid but I guess he did. He took a bunch of photos of Christmas tree ornaments and then found that he was rich. He bought a brownstone in the city and married a woman thirty or so years younger than he was. He had it made.
Then he made a terrible but not unheard of mistake. He decided to pitch the city life and come down to the Confederacy where he could live the life of a planter/farmer. He sold his brownstone, gathered up his young wife and a pile of money and headed south. He found a large chunk of land in central Virginia that had an old house and barn on it. He let the local fire department burn down the house for practice and then proceeded to renovate the barn into a giant house. He did the renovation very nicely for he had a fastidious sensibility. I was only in that house once. The main room downstairs was the size of a gymnasium and you really could shoot hoops or have a short track motorcycle race in there if you wanted to. I guess it served as a sort of photo studio too. He could photograph a hot air balloon in there. But as I said, it was nicely done.
The trouble my neighbor had with the Confederacy was that he was pure NYC and therefor viewed the southerners as so many scruffy groundhogs to be dealt with like the rubes they were. He basically made enemies with every single person he met. The notion of southern chivalry, hokey as it may be in some views, is something that really does exist, though perhaps attenuated and somewhat superficial in this age. There are people down here who might do what they say and some of them will even tell the truth sometimes. Mr. C could not believe this. He fought perceived lies with real ones. He fought every single person he met over every single issue you could imagine. By the time I wandered into his territory looking to buy some of his prime land he was known as a monumental dick from NYC. The first time I met him we had the following conversation.
ME: I’d have to plant some deciduous trees.
C: No, I couldn’t let you do that.
ME: If it’s my land I’d plant what I wanted.
C: I’d have a clause in the contract and the deed.
ME: What’s wrong with deciduous trees?
C: What’s a deciduous tree?
He really did own some beautiful property. Originally it was around 150 acres of woods and fields. But as Mr. C’s young wife proceeded to spend money he began to gerrymander his land into byzantine forms which he would sell to bewildered people who wondered how they were going to drive across a small river to get to their house site. The piece of land he was going to sell me was a gorgeous 18 acres. Really, the only bad thing about it was a 500 thousand volt power line across the top of the property. Otherwise it was like something out of the Wizard of Oz. Just gorgeous views! Green fields and mountains in the near distance. I loved it. But just after I made my first offer I noticed that Mr. C moved the boundary stakes so that the piece of land was now smaller even though it had the same price. I told the real estate agent that Mr. C had cheated and moved the boundary stakes. The agent was mortified by not surprised. When I confronted Mr. C about the boundary line being moved he said he had to do it because his wife had spent some big glob of money recently. In his mind it was perfectly all right to cheat me out of some money because of his wife and her spending. It was perfectly natural because he was from NYC and I was a hick from Goobersville. I wound up telling Mr. C that I wasn’t going to deal with a criminal and a carpetbagger. But I still wound up being his neighbor because he’d sold a beautiful piece of land to a man named Dr Word who then sold the piece of land to me. It was more than I originally wanted but it really was my dream property. I loved it right from the get go and it was far enough away from the 500 thousand volt power line that I would not hear the special noise that would occur when there was rain or heavy moisture in the air. On the first piece of property, when it rained it sounded like there was a 2000 horsepower electric motor humming in the sky. Harmless but disconcerting to man and groundhog alike.
Mr. C lived about half a mile from where I started building my house. He would drive across my fields in his land rover and visit me while I was nailing boards and digging holes. He had two young children who rode around with him. He was kind of a busybody and I don’t think he really accepted the idea that the land he sold was no longer his. I think he imagined some sort of feudal rights running with the metes and bounds or something like that. At this point I didn’t really hate Mr. C or anything like that. I just thought he was a pest.
Our first battles started when he decided to “sneak in” a bridge across the little river that went through our properties. Like his house, it really was a well done bridge with iron girders and nice thick wooden road boards. It must have cost 30 thousand dollars. But while building it he kept driving bulldozers and backhoes over my land smashing part of my field into a mud hole. I don’t even think I would have minded if he’d asked but he didn’t. He just assumed that he could do whatever he wanted. So one day I went over here and chewed him out for fucking up my field. It didn’t seem to phase him. He moved his equipment off my property and kept building. And then I saw an article in the local paper about how a county resident was in trouble for building a whole bridge without any sort of permit or consultation with the authorities who manage rivers. He had to go before the county commissioners and get fined and chewed out but, again, it didn’t bother him. There was just no way he was going to negotiate with a bunch of rebels and peons from Dixie. The next thing he did was decide that he wanted to build a giant barn on the first piece of property that I was going to buy. I could not understand what possessed him to want to do this. This barn would be about half a mile from his house but about 500 feet from my house. He had every right to do this but it still bothered me. I felt like he was moving closer to my territory with his bridge and barn so that he could bother me and watch what I was doing. One of the big reasons I had for buying the property was that it was so private. I really liked privacy. I did not want Mr. C to encroach on me.
So Mr. C built his barn. It was a really nice barn but I didn’t understand why he needed it. He didn’t have any animals and had no desire to acquire any as far as I could tell. He didn’t cut and store his hay but rather let someone else cut it and sell it. Why did he need a barn? Well I have to tell you that one of the other things I liked aside from privacy was a lack of stuff. I was a very minimalist person. As it turned out Mr. C and his wife were not minimalists and so he needed a barn in which to store all his junk. I guess that wouldn’t have bothered me terribly since it WAS a nice looking barn. What bothered me was the fact that the barn was not large enough to store all their junk in. So Mr. C rented five semi-truck tractor trailers which he parked along the edge of my property. This was when I started hating him. When I confronted him he said, “We don’t have room!” and I said, “You mean you don’t have room in your giant house that used to be a barn, and you don’t have room in your giant barn which IS a barn. And a barn worthy of storing hundreds of cows or thousands of bales of hay? How much junk can you have? What’s the point of having it if it’s just sitting in a trailer?” But he couldn’t have cared less about what I thought. I came up with all sorts of schemes for destroying his trailers. I wanted to drill a quarter inch hole in the top of one of them and pour gasoline into it so I could light it on fire. I wanted to cut holes in the tires or write anti—Mr. C graffiti on all of them. Things like “I’m such a pig from NYC that I have trailers full of trash that I’m hoarding like a kooky woman with a thousand cats.” But really I didn’t do anything except pour steam out of my ears every time I looked out my window.
A few months after the semis arrived I was awaken in the middle of the night by a bulldozer. I could not believe my ears! Mr. C just decided that he had to have some grading done on the drive way by his barn at 10:30 PM. One thing I forgot to mention about Mr. C was that he was extremely cheap. He had things done very nicely but he didn’t like to pay for it. So he hired the kind of people who could only work in the middle of the night, sort of “off hours” people who might be inclined to steal their employer’s equipment temporarily or insist on hunting rights during lunch hour which would be in the middle of the night. He fought constantly with the people he employed. And then he’d come over and complain to me about them. His employees would also come over to me and complain about Mr. C, about how cheap he was, how he cheated on the numbers, and how he was such a giant dick. On the night of the bulldozer I actually threatened Mr. C with physical violence. I slammed my fist into my hand and said, “I’m gonna kill you if I hear one more peep from that bulldozer!” He told me, with a straight face, “I had no idea what time it was!”
About a year after the bulldozer incident I came down my drive way and saw Mr. C directing some backhoes around up on the property with the barn on it. I stopped and asked what he was doing. “I’m going to build a house here. My wife spent too much money and we have to sell our original house.” I couldn’t believe it! Now I was going to have Mr. C and his wife for my close neighbors! What a disaster! So I watched as he built this new house. Ironically, this new house was built to look like a barn. Mr. C really liked barns for some reason. Maybe he thought southern people all lived in barns at one time and was trying to recapture something from history. Or else he just had more junk to store and needed barn-houses. The barn house turned out to look pretty nice like I figured it would. Mr. and Mrs. C moved in and went about their business. Mrs. C’s main business was spending money though I don’t have any idea what she bought. Stuff I guess. Anyway after about a year Mr. C told me that he had to sell the house he just built because his wife spent all their money again. “Where are you going to go?” I asked. He pointed to the barn and said he was going to turn IT into a house. I couldn’t believe it. He was slowly getting closer and closer. Barn/houses were creeping up on my house!
Sometimes Mr. C would decide to take a photo of my house. sign it, and then give it to me as sort of a token of neighborliness. Sometimes I would be nice to him because I thought, “Well, he’s an old man with a spendthrift wife and everyone hates him.” But I couldn’t be nice to him for long because he always found something else to offend me with. One Sunday I heard some of his employee hicks shooting guns across the little river. They were doing target practice with their 30/06 hunting rifles and it sounded like Vietnam right outside my door. This was the kind of thing that drove me crazy about Mr. C. Why, on all days of the week, would you let those red necks come out on a peaceful Sunday afternoon to do their target practice? But instead of going over to talk to him about it I got my own high-powered military assault rifle and went over to the little creak by the side of his barn/house. I fired off ten shots like a machine gun so that the noise practically dented the side of his house and then went back to my house. Within a minute he was zooming across the field in his land rover screaming at the hunter/target practice dudes to stop. I don’t know what he thought had happened but it was very satisfying to me.
One day Mr. C said that my dog came over to his house too much. I told him that he should stop feeding my dog then. He denied that he fed the dog. At that time I was a private pilot and sometimes I would fly over my house just to look at things. A few days after I told Mr. C to stop feeding my dog I flew over our houses at low altitude and saw a perfect trail from my house to Mr. C’s house. It was my dog’s path. I also saw with my own eyes, from an airplane, Mr. C dumping some sort of food into a bowl by his door and my dog hogging away at it. God I loved it! He was such a big fat liar that I didn’t even know what to say to him.
Over the years it seemed that we would go back and forth arguing about this and that but it really got to the point where I didn’t worry too much about him. I definitely terrified him a few times and then felt a little bad about it because I figured that he was too dense to understand what he was doing wrong. Aside from being wrong headed about social life he had a propensity for blowing up his cars and lawn mowers because he was one of those people who simply could not understand that engines absolutely had to have oil in them. His land rover machine was constantly drooling out oil where ever it went and that caused an epic fight between him and the rich woman who bought his original house. He would drive over to her place to bother her or watch her ride her horse and while his car sat there it would be pouring oil out on the ground. So this woman, who was an environmentalist hippy type, kicked Mr. C and his land rover off her property. He came over to my place to complain about it and I tried to explain that you had to keep your oil in your car engine. You HAD to for many reasons! But he just couldn’t understand it. He blew up a couple of cars, several lawn mowers, a weed whacker, and a tractor. All dead and out of oil! He also ran over monumental rocks and old iron farm implements with his riding mower. He liked to cut about ten thousand acres with this little John Deere riding mower that was meant to cut a little quarter acre plot. You’d hear this thing going along with the engine screaming and then a giant gnashing sound as the blades cut into a boulder or something. For the next few days you’d see his lawn mower in pieces on his driveway as he hired various dumb ass (cheap) mechanics to try fixing it. He liked cutting his grass so much that when he ran out of his grass he would start cutting mine. One day he came up to me and said that he’d run over a pile of rocks in my driveway and destroyed his lawnmower while trying to cut my grass. What could I say? Then there was the cattle battle. The one person Mr. C liked to fight with more than me was S. Fox the hillbilly cow farmer who leased some land around us. His cows would bust out all the time and tromp around our yards smashing everything in sight. At first they really made me mad and I would shoot them with my pellet gun, whack them with giant sticks, or throw big rocks at them as hard as I could. No matter how hard I hit one of those cows they would just look up at me like, “What?” and then continue eating like a fly just landed on them. I finally gave up on the cows and accepted the fact that I lived in farm land. But Mr. C would not accept that he lived in farm land. I don’t know how many times he called me and said, “There’s a cow on your property.” He really didn’t care where the cows went as much as he cared about the fact that there WAS a cow loose. One of S. Fox’s cows could be loose and over in West Virginia and Mr. C would be mad about it. Sometimes the cows made it through my property and over to Mr. C’s property. He would then call animal control, the police, S. Fox, me, and who knows who else. He would use his professional photographer skills to document the cow’s trespassing habits. He would come over to my house and tell me that S. Fox was a real bastard. “You wouldn’t believe what he said to me!” He’d say. But I could believe what he said to him. S. Fox really was a big bruiser red neck that reminded me of a bull and I liked to imagine him standing there in his greasy coveralls while Mr. C complained about his cows. I could see S. Fox with a piece of hay sticking out of his mouth and his eyes half shut in a bumpkin stupor while Mr. C went on and on about the cows. But S. Fox definitely didn’t care. What a perfect match! The ultimate hick against the ultimate NYC person. A pure deadlock of conflicting cultures! Two people who couldn’t care less about what the other one said. There was no way around it. We all wound up in court because of the cows. Somehow Mr. C worked with animal control to get S. Fox summoned to court and I was dragged in as a witness. I never saw Mr. C so happy. He must have thought that S. Fox was going to be publicly flogged or something after losing his case which he was sure to do. Mr. C had all sorts of big glossy photographs of cows who were trespassing. They always looked very happy standing there with grass hanging out of their mouths (ironically, like S. Fox looked) as they stared at Mr. C and his tripod. The problem with the photographs, as the judge pointed out, was that the cows could have been anywhere on the planet except the ocean or desert or the north pole. It was a pretty amusing trial. S. Fox actually hired a lawyer. I claimed that I didn’t mind the cows except when they trespassed on my “curtilage.” It was a new law word I learned just for the trial. S. Fox’s lawyer was a real performer and he strutted around the court room with his finger in the air like he was telling everyone “wait just a second here!” He accused my horses of trespassing on S. Fox’s land which I denied. He asked me how I knew it was S. Fox’s cows who were trespassing on my land. I told him that I could see them coming and going over the fence. The judge laughed a few times. At one point Mr. C and I were sent out into the hall for some reason. The bailiff instructed us to absolutely not talk to each other while out in the hall. As soon as we were alone in the hall Mr. C started telling me that S. Fox was a giant liar and a bastard and then asked me what I thought about S. Fox’s lawyer. The bailiff immediately came out and sternly warned us not to speak to each other. The second the bailiff shut the door Mr. C started talking again and I told him to be quiet but it was too late and the bailiff stuck his head out the door and said that we’d be cited for contempt if “we” said another word. It was unbelievable but Mr. C just couldn’t shut up about S. Fox and his lawyer, or understand that we were forbidden to talk to each other for some legal reason. I had to walk away and put my hands over my ears so I wouldn’t get a fine. When we got back in court it was announced that S. Fox was guilty of letting his cows go and he was to have a 100 dollar fine. Mr. C couldn’t believe that that was all that was going to happen. I told him he should sign some of his photos and give them to S. Fox and his lawyer but Mr. C did not understand my joke and said, “Why would I do that?”
Now, every spring, Mr. C will call me at least once to tell me that there is a cow on my property. I think he would really like to continue fighting the south but he’s becoming too old. His final big war was with a fairly famous movie director who bought the house/barn behind the house/barn Mr. C was living in. I don’t know how the fight started. It may have been over the driveway. Mr. C loved to sell pieces of his property with the idea that the buyer could use some of Mr. C’s driveway to get to their property. And then Mr. C would get mad at them for some reason and tell them that they had to get their own driveway, usually at significant expense, or else walk to their house from the main road. I think that’s what Mr. C did to the director. But the movie director was fairly rich and used lawyers to attack Mr. C. So Mr. C decided to pile up a mountain of ripped out trees and brush behind his barn/house so that the movie director looked out his front window at a pile of withering vegetation. The movie director had two giant, exotic dogs of the type that the rich often own. They looked like tigers and ran around between the director’s B/H and Mr. C’s B/H. When they barked they sounded like giant dire wolves from the pleistocene and they were good at barking for long periods of time. The director trained them to go right up to his property line, aim their giant muzzles at Mr. C’s B/H and bark their balls off. It didn’t bother the director to hear the dogs bark because he was deaf. Unfortunately Mr. C was also deaf so the only person the dogs bothered was me. I would bomb them with rocks and then I bought a high powered sling shot to shoot them with but it didn’t matter. They were wily dogs and I couldn’t come close to hitting them. The movie director had a very shy wife who was also the inspiration for a character in a famous sit-com from the late 70s. Some times I would scream up into their yard, “Shut those fuckin’ dogs up or I’ll kill ‘em.” and I knew the only person who could possible hear me would be the shy wife. That made me feel bad. And all of it came back to Mr. C and his machinations. I was standing in my drive way screaming at dogs and then being embarrassed because of Mr. C. I think their war would have gone on a long time but the movie director wound up investing in his daughter’s internet company and lost all his money so he had to sell his house. I thought it was ironic that both the director and Mr. C seemed to pour all their money into women and then had to sell their houses. Mr. C started off with 150 beautiful acres and wound up basically living in the final barn/house which was sort of down in a ditch with no views and very little acreage. And then I found out that he was doing a reverse mortgage so that even his final house was being slowly taken away from him.
The other day Mr. C called me to complain about the phone company. He wanted to somehow have the internet without having the phone company or something like that. Evidently he’d had some sort of fight with the phone company and they were threatening to shut him off. The way he described it it sounded like it was, as usual, entirely his fault (he didn’t pay them!) but he didn’t see it that way. I told him what I knew about the internet out in the country and then recommended that he get one of his kids to come out to his house when he got the phone company out there so he’d have some savvy tech back-up. Then he’s like, “My daughter, I don’t know how old she is, 29 or something like that, …getting her to come out here is like pulling teeth. And my wife, she lives in another room and won’t talk to me. And some rats ate the wires in my land rover so it won’t start, and my lawn mower…..” and on and on. Before he hung up he said, “Thanks for spending some time with me.” It was sort of sad. After all our fights I realized that someday I was going to miss Mr. C.